The more I date the more it seems to me that complimenting a lady has fallen right out of fashion. I don’t know whether men are trying to preserve the dark and mysterious air of a playboy they’ve spent so long developing, or whether they think women have heard it all before, but believe me when I say: we haven’t heard it all before and we’d like to hear a bit more!
Now I’m not suggesting that men should constantly be paying lip service to women, but if a woman has obviously put in the time and effort then make sure it doesn’t go unnoticed. You might have dated one hundred beautiful, Latin escorts in London or you might have danced from Clapham to Camden with every busty, blonde escort under the sun, but that doesn’t mean that the next London escort who spends all day making herself perfect for you should be treated like al completely new and wonderful discovery.
Take the time to admire your date for the night, notice how soft her hair feels, how good she smells or how funny she is. Point out that you’ve never seen a woman move so gracefully or laugh so sweetly. Whatever it is that attracts you to your date is probably her favourite feature about herself so make sure you notice it. When women feel appreciated they are happier and more fun to be around. And there’s no need to feel like you’re a phoney. If she likes your suit she’ll probably tell you so why not do the same for her? If you’re telling the truth then she’ll feel it and you’ll be able to spend the evening in a cocoon of mutual appreciation.
Compliments are never wasted, let your date know how wonderful she is and you’ll soon find out that you didn’t know the half of it!
